Apology Language? HUH?? I did not know there was such a thing! Someone posted about it on another site and I was intrigued. Sure enough, it is related to "The 5 Love Languages".
Did you know there are 5 "types" of apologies? And if we have a preferred style, then we can have difficulties accepting and giving apologies with our spouse if their style differs? I had no idea!!
I took the 20 question test and found out I score 50/50 on
I had ZERO on the other 3 choices! I wonder now if my husband's apologies might come in those forms and based on what I learned reading the questions and choices, I had many "A HA" moments. Other choices were
And something that was really freaky - one of the questions was an EXACT problem I have in my life, right this second, and it made me stop and consider, just how would I like it to be resolved (from the other person).
I really encourage you to take this test and just see. Maybe you will be surprised as I was!
Let me know what your "types" were! I have a feeling that wives and moms of aspies (Asperger's) are high on the "Accepting Responsibility" choice. This IS our life.