Apology Language? HUH?? I did not know there was such a thing! Someone posted about it on another site and I was intrigued. Sure enough, it is related to "The 5 Love Languages".
Did you know there are 5 "types" of apologies? And if we have a preferred style, then we can have difficulties accepting and giving apologies with our spouse if their style differs? I had no idea!!
I took the 20 question test and found out I score 50/50 on
Accepting Responsibility
and
Expressing Regret.
I had ZERO on the other 3 choices! I wonder now if my husband's apologies might come in those forms and based on what I learned reading the questions and choices, I had many "A HA" moments. Other choices were
Making Restitution
Genuinely Repenting
Requesting Apology
And something that was really freaky - one of the questions was an EXACT problem I have in my life, right this second, and it made me stop and consider, just how would I like it to be resolved (from the other person).
I really encourage you to take this test and just see. Maybe you will be surprised as I was!
Let me know what your "types" were! I have a feeling that wives and moms of aspies (Asperger's) are high on the "Accepting Responsibility" choice. This IS our life.
I enjoy taking quizzes like this. Thanks for sharing! I scored very similar to you: 11 on Accepting Responsibility and 9 on Expressing Regret. Very interesting!
ReplyDeleteHey Cheri! Thanks so much for being my newest follower and I'm so glad you liked my story on my heat/air. God is SO good! :)
ReplyDeleteI took the apology quiz and got an 11 on Accepting Responsibility and a 9 on Expressing Regret. Hmmmm.....I never really thought about how I would like someone to apologize to me before. I guess I just want people to own up to their mistakes and not just leave me hanging! lol
My son just read the 5 love languages for school and took a test on it. (he's going to school to be a pastor and is getting his credentials and will be ordained in a couple of years in the Assemblies of God) I should get him to take this test too!
Thanks for the test taking fun, I'm sure I'll remember this test the next time I'm offended. :)
Hugs
missy
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